Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Thursday, May 21, 2009

My Girlfriend Cheated On Me!

My girlfriend cheated on me!! Man I can't believe after all this time it still hurts. Hard to believe 5 words can still make me hurt inside. I wonder when the hurt and the pain will go away. Lots of my pals say you ll get better in time.
Sure time yes I'll feel better in time but that doesn't help me today. How can this happen to me? This only happens to other people not me. I mean not to be conceited but iam a very attractive guy. Iam funny ,I sing I dance,I love romance. What did I do to deserve this! What kills me the most is all the times I was hit on by her friends,and said NO! It's wrong I don't wanna hurt my girl I love her. They say comon she will never know,I say yes maybe but I would know and eventualy she would know. Why? Cause Iam a terriable liar. Yes I admit it Iam a terriable liar. How many guys can admit that to themselves? I tryed finding the answers in a bottom of a bottle a few times.

Truthfully all I got was more questions and a headache. A long time before we broke up I suspected she was not being honest with me on some matters. So I Click Here! to get some answers to some questions I had. What got me suspecting she was cheating was Id go out of town to work for weeks at a time. Now ladies don't give me that! Well your out of town and I got lonely BS. LOL... If you really love a guy why would you wanna hurt him? Anyway back to my story. And guys pay attention learn from me. Ok iam out of town I call home most nights and no answer. Id text her and get a conversatoin going and she would fade into black. Meaning our conversations never got finished most nights. I was starting to get angry and hurt inside. I couldn't sleep at night I was tossing and turning,my work suffered. When I finally got a hold of my girl on the phone that night after work. Well I got the standard excuses I had to work late. I was at my parents place visiting. And my personal favorite sorry I didn't text you or call you but I fell asleep. Wow!!! Now that's original I never thought of that one! You know what the worst part is fellas is you gotta buy her story. Why you ask? Cause you outta town not across town outta town. Remember you have to be at work by 7:00am.

So what you gonna do fellas?Click Here! that's what i did. Kinda brutal when my lady knows my schedule but I don't know hers. Well I fixed that in a hurry,2 days before my shift was over I went home. I got home in the morning when I knew my girl would be at work. I walk in the door and well the place smelled like sex! You know love in the air! But not my love!! Now the first thing Iam thinking My girlfriend cheated on me! So I didn't get mad right away I was more shocked. I knew I had to remain calm cause well you want answers as to why she cheated.
Your not gonna get that unless you remain calm and stay in control. So I unpacked my gear and had a couple beer. Waiting for the girlfriend to get off work. So to kill time I went online my computer that is.

What I found really shocked me emails from other men! Her talking garbage about me to these men. Funny I never knew I was that bad in bed? She never told me she always said I was great! Liar!!! While I was online I found this web pageClick Here! and I read about how I can know for sure my girl was cheating. Where when, and how long and with and who. Well eventually the girlfriend came home after work. What a surprise,I thought she would be out with Mr. 5 star rating! Ya the god of the bedroom.the prince of pleasure. Well fellas and ahem ladies you should have saw the look on her face when she saw me sitting there ,in my easy chair. I thought she was going to die!
I said hi dear she asks what are you doing here? I said I live here remember? So that night we talked and talked.
Yes I got the answers I was looking for. My girlfriend cheated on me! All I needed to know. So I moved out and moved on with my life. Strange tho how my girl couldn't explain why she cheated on me. Ah well short term pain for long term gain.Thanks for reading:)



Monday, May 18, 2009

Is Your Lover Cheating On You?


So you have been in a relationship with your guy/girl for just over a year now. So tell me is your lover cheating on you? I already know what your answer will be no way he/she would never do that to me!!! Iam great in bed,Ive money,I treat them right all the time.
Let me tell you from first hand experience women as do men for that matter cheat. It's human nature. Iam not saying all do. Now one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make is thinking ,it could never happen to you! The biggest reason affairs go undetected is because one party will not acknowledge,that it can happen to them. Let me tell you it does happen!! I don't care who you are rich,poor,celebrity ,well endowed, it can happen to you cause it happened to me too! I wanna share a personal story that happened to me first hand. I had a girlfriend of 2years well almost give or take. I worked out of town lots when Id call seems like she was only answering the phone half the time. Id call at different times of the evening,and was hit and miss. So when I finally got a hold of her I asked her about it. I got the classic excuses oh I was working late,I went to my parents place you know stuff like that. Let me tell you it's hard enough being away from your family trying to make a dollar. Wondering Is Your Lover Cheating On You? I mean what else you gonna think ? You call text and it seems your always on hold. I finally had to deal with the fact that hey It could happen to me! So I did some research and tryed to find out the different signs of a cheating lover. SoClick Here! if you wanna do some research of your own. There is no worse feeling in the world then wondering Is Your Lover Cheating On You? Eventually I got the answers I was looking for let me tell you guys and gals it wasn't from her. When I went home after my stint at work. I found changes in her behaviour. What you ask well the sex wasn't the same ,she always seemed to be on her phone texting,always on her computer when I walked in the room shes quickly changed the page,so I wouldn't see what she was doing. Strange for a women that claimed she misses me when Iam away. Why doesn't she wanna spend any time with me? Why she so distant from me? It's an awful feeling,you know the one. The one where you feel your on the outside looking in. So if you feel that wayClick Here! Thanks very much for reading!Add to Technorati Favorites

Sincerely

Rockford